THE PROPOSAL – would you accept?


Imagine a man proposing to his sweetheart.

He says “Honey, I love you and I want us to be married. I promise to take good care of you. I’ll provide for you. You will have the best of everything. I’ll be a good father to our children and give them the best education. All I ask is that you will allow me one day a month to spend with another woman.”

Would a woman accept that offer?
Is that what she would expect of his commitment in marriage?
Or would she expect a complete commitment?

I think we would be very quick to criticise a man who made that sort of commitment – but are we guilty of the same in our commitment to God?

What did Jesus say?
He said that if I would be His disciple, I must “take up my cross”.

What did He mean?
It would have been very clear to anyone who heard His statement.
Everyone knew that anyone who took up a cross was as good as dead.
He was on the way to be crucified, with no possible outcome except death.

Jesus was clearly saying, as Paul also said later,
that we are to count ourselves – our own desires, our own will, as DEAD.
We are no longer our own, but we belong, completely, to God.

Word from Mr Anon:

God does not want a 90% commitment or even a 99% commitment.
     He wants – and is entitled to – a 100% commitment.

ANYTHING that takes God’s place is OUT of place

To withhold ONE thing from God is THEFT – for everything is His.

One live coal can set a whole stack on fire.

The Lord is King!  I own His power,
His right to rule each day and hour.
I own His claim on heart and will
And His demands I will fulfill.


About meetingintheclouds

I am Cloudwatcher, a 76 year old Christian lady, happily married to a wonderful man for over 50 years. We have five wonderful sons, all with at least one University degree and in top positions in their chosen fields. One son is still single but four have found perfect wives and they have given us five lovely grandchildren. I was born in England and while I'm proud of my English heritage, I am doubly proud to be a true-blue, fair-dinkum Aussie. My husband and I are committed Christians whose first priority is to love and serve our risen Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ. My life story will tell of my journey from abuse to peace. I suffered 22 years of abuse, being constantly told I was totally evil and an ugly freak: no one would ever want me, so I might as well do the world a favour and kill myself.
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10 Responses to THE PROPOSAL – would you accept?

  1. writinggomer says:

    Great post! Thank you for sharing.
    May God bless you in your service to Him.


  2. brakelite says:

    And on another level Jesus asks us men to love our wives as Christ loved His church and gave Himself for it….don’t let anyone tell you that God lowers His standards to meet our deficiencies…if we but confess our failings and our complete dependence upon Him He will lift us up to meet His standards…both to love Him and others, esp. our spouse(s).


    • I agree, brakelite, God NEVER lowers His standards. In today’s world, one of the greatest witnesses to the love of God and the REALITY of a relationship with Him SHOULD be the way husbands and wives love each other. Sadly, it is something seldom seem.


  3. pbus1 says:

    As I read this post, I thought on an old song we sang when I was a youngster. Some of the lyrics are, “Help me Jesus to make 100, 99 and 1/2 won’t do.” How true this is! A little leaven, leaveneth the whole lump! I want to be TOTALLY committed to the Lord. It is a mandate from Him. Jesus gave His ALL at Calvary. Why should He require any less of us?

    God bless,



    • Total commitment . . . yes, it is our aim while here on earth and we have seen the enormous benefits in little snatches at a time, but our human nature soon butts in again. Oh how I look forward to the time when we will serve Him with ALL our beings, with no distractions but with total dedication!


  4. admin says:

    Excellent post. The title really caught my eye and drew me into your thought provoking post.


  5. Debbie says:

    “Everyone knew that anyone who took up a cross was as good as dead.” That one really stopped me in my tracks. Thank you, Angela. Praying that I commit my all to my All in All.
    God bless you as you do too!


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